Forgiveness is NOT a License......

.....to stay in YOUR MESS!


You've heard it over and over again "I'm sorry, I promise I will change - things will be different from now on..."  

Forgiveness is extended because we are commanded to forgive yet, not long after the tears, the pleading and the promise offense has made its way again, and again AND again.  When does the change come into play?! NEVER! WHY? Because despite the genuine desire to change and various attempts, it takes a lot more than words.  It truly takes humility to look within and know that it is impossible to do without God.

Married For Life Blog

I just want to welcome you to my new blog!  I am very excited to share in-depth topics that pertain to every day life issues we face as wives, husbands and in our marriages.

A few years ago I started "Married For Life" Facebook Group and it is has grown to almost 300 members (296 to be exact).  I had taken a break back in 2011 until 2012 and felt the LORD pulling me back to it aggressively last year and clearly I understand why.  The sacred covenant of Marriage is being torn apart with the legalization of same-sex marriages.  Marriage and the family structure are being redefined by man.

Marriage is the union of one man and one woman according to God, Our Creator's design.  There is no evidence in the bible that states otherwise.  Rather there are countless scriptures both in Old Testament (Genesis) and the New Testament that confirms the relationship and it's function.  I wont' get into this now but will at another time.